How Changing Your Perspective Changes Your Life
- Whole-Self Wellness

- May 29, 2025
- 2 min read
Updated: Jun 20, 2025
Kammi, founder of Whole-Self Wellness, posted a video recently that resonated with a lot of people.
Have you ever paused to examine your perspective?
Life’s challenges can easily pull focus toward what’s not working. This mindset traps individuals in negativity, obscuring potential solutions. Instead, Kammi encourages shifting attention to what is working, no matter how small. By reframing obstacles as opportunities, people can cultivate resilience and uncover pathways to growth. This change in perspective transforms difficulties into stepping stones for personal development.
Even setbacks carry valuable lessons, as Kammi emphasizes by quoting Nelson Mandela: "I either win, or I learn." A missed opportunity or perceived failure—whether in career, relationships, or personal goals—can serve as a teacher. For instance, a project that falls short might highlight areas for improvement, while a personal challenge can build empathy. By viewing these moments as chances to learn, individuals turn obstacles into tools for progress, fostering a mindset that embraces growth over defeat.
"I either win, or I learn." -Nelson Mandela
Practicing gratitude is a practical way to nurture this positive outlook. Noticing what’s going well, like a supportive conversation or a completed task, shifts the focus from lack to abundance. Whole-Self Wellness advocates for this habit, which helps individuals approach challenges with curiosity rather than frustration. Over time, this rewires the mind to seek solutions, enhancing emotional resilience and improving relationships by reducing reactivity and fostering adaptability.
Kammi challenges everyone with a powerful question: "How can you win or learn?" This invites reflection on how to extract value from any situation, whether a triumph or a setback. By choosing to see challenges as opportunities, individuals gain control over their narrative, creating a more fulfilling life. Whole-Self Wellness encourages this shift, reminding us that every experience—win or lesson—contributes to a journey toward greater wholeness.
To begin changing your life, consider signing up for a free discovery call with one of our certified wellness coaches. We'd love to hear your perspective and how you win and learn.
Or, leave a comment: how has your perspective shifted?


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